tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post742551864389988051..comments2024-03-14T00:49:40.263-04:00Comments on As Vinny C's It: Why Don't They Just Ask For It?Vinny Chttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-5258477344757582082013-12-13T15:23:57.900-04:002013-12-13T15:23:57.900-04:00Agreed. Still, there are the ones who never outgro...Agreed. Still, there are the ones who never outgrow playing games in their relationships. As a guy I never understood it. I mean, it's sex! Whenever you want, guilt free. That's got to be one of main bonuses to getting married. Oh and then there's the whole <i>"love and companionship and building a life together"</i> deal too. Those are important also.Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-10284091528944176002013-12-13T14:19:48.941-04:002013-12-13T14:19:48.941-04:00Well, If anything I am an aberration cause I am al...Well, If anything I am an aberration cause I am always initiating it. There is no power game - we are married, if you are using sex as a chip in some sort of game you have bigger issues in your marriage. The Shitastrophyhttp://theshitatrophy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-84921377460693401372013-12-12T15:48:35.444-04:002013-12-12T15:48:35.444-04:00Yeah. This may end up being a series.Yeah. This may end up being a series.Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-82908352781839496342013-12-11T20:20:33.378-04:002013-12-11T20:20:33.378-04:00This was really good. I'm looking forward to y...This was really good. I'm looking forward to your posts about the other 48 things.Christian at Point Counter-Point Point Pointhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11447821094473597560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-32745892519532218282013-12-09T13:26:31.437-04:002013-12-09T13:26:31.437-04:00You know what they say: “Great minds…”You know what they say: “Great minds…”Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-53529200263285608052013-12-08T19:35:06.396-04:002013-12-08T19:35:06.396-04:00Dude. It's like you were inside my brain.Dude. It's like you were inside my brain. DB Stewarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15484034493143850659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-29769466778055476442013-12-08T08:57:27.319-04:002013-12-08T08:57:27.319-04:00True. Plus, if we were to believe all the clichés ...True. Plus, if we were to believe <i>all</i> the clichés out there, lesbians would also never hook up based on the mere fact that all women are supposed to not be able to stand each other's company. Guess there isn't really a simple answer. Which is also typical of women!! <i>(BA-DUM-TSS!)</i><br /><br />Sorry.Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-63263901457350501142013-12-08T08:51:55.458-04:002013-12-08T08:51:55.458-04:00*Resists the urge to comment about warm-up techniq...<i>*Resists the urge to comment about warm-up techniques*</i>Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-29774484878746286702013-12-08T08:48:41.129-04:002013-12-08T08:48:41.129-04:00I don't think all guys think like that. Some, ...I don't think all guys think like that. Some, it's true, but a lot of us aren't. I think it's a case of the minority being in the position to have the most say. Take the fashion industry, for example. They think the anorexic look is "hot" so they figure if they keep telling us we'll keep believing it. Some movie makers are the same. Sadly, a lot of people still fall for it.Vinny Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807312191102871918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-48401148028646034632013-12-07T09:54:02.116-04:002013-12-07T09:54:02.116-04:00Speaking only from my experience, lists of general...Speaking only from my experience, lists of generalizations generally don't address individual feelings. There are plenty of women who initiate. Then there are women, for whom asking for it, kind of dilutes the mood. The passion needed is generated by the desire the other person shows towards her. If any one of your or my reasons were true, lesbians would never get laid. Pickleopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13772003052474877906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-52993289066518981402013-12-06T19:02:22.418-04:002013-12-06T19:02:22.418-04:00I can only speak for myself, but I've always b...I can only speak for myself, but I've always been reluctant to initiate sex simply because I know I need a head start if I'm going to make the finish line. I've never been shy about letting my partner know I'm up for it though.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17664909801454351135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6456755389981750866.post-45586869308759127252013-12-06T16:39:23.349-04:002013-12-06T16:39:23.349-04:00I think everything you said is true, but also, tho...I think everything you said is true, but also, those loathsome movies you mentioned are always written by men. Seriously. That's how I believe men see women a lot of the time. But I think really it's just a throwback to the past where women were supposed to be submissive and silent and thought of as sluts if they should suggest they might like a roll in the hay. It's as simple as that. We're as worried about rejection as men are and I think sometimes shyer ladies might be embarrassed in some way. I don't know, it's dumb. It's no big deal and like you said, dudes are mostly inclined to oblige. :)VEGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07704685920354554043noreply@blogger.com